Exactly. Bands get too touchy. So you can play an instrument, thousands of others can too. If you like to entertain, then entertain, just don't expect to be everyones' cup of tea.

If someone does not like a band, or their sound, it is better to inquire why than to start a shit storm. It is either not within their tastes, they are just being an asshole, or the person actually has a legitimate reason. Hopefully if they hate your Polka band because they hate Polka, you can call them on their shit and they will leave you alone.

Drama does draw attention, and it can get interesting. I don't think the drama chases people away, but I could be wrong.